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A sweet and creamy beauty tip for the girls…

 

My skin is sensitive, especially my face. I have to be careful what I clean it with, what I moisturize with, what makeup I wear. If I use the wrong thing, it will either break out horribly, or become red and irritated. Don’t get me started on what happens if I kiss a guy who needs to shave.

Anyways, I have been mixing about a half cup of milk with three tablespoon of honey in a coffee cup. I zap it for about 10 seconds in the microwave and stir, then I smear it all over my face and neck. I leave it for about 5 minutes, then jump in the shower. I must tell you, my face feels so refreshed and wonderful after these treatments. I also will mix some oatmeal in every so often to do a more deep exfoliation. It seems to give my skin a youthful glow. I really like it.

When in a hurry, I will smear just the honey, straight from the fridge, over my skin before showering, sometimes. The honey by itself feels wonderful, too. Ladies, I urge you to try this. It beats any expensive treatment I can think of.

Also, if you want to and have enough, try mixing about a half gallon of milk, half jar of honey, and a couple of cups of oatmeal into a warm bath. This is a wonderful all over treatment for your skin, for special occasions.

Anyone have any other special skin recipes they want to let us in on?

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Cook to impress your lady! It can be simple, yet taste gourmet…

Hot, but not exactly wise…

There are so many guys out there who still believe that they don’t need to learn to cook because it’s a woman’s thing. That is such Bologna it isn’t even funny. Seriously guys, if you know how to cook just one or two meals, and cook them well, you have no idea the power to impress you hold in your hands. Gourmet doesn’t have to involve all kinds of cooking techniques you can’t even spell or pronounce. It’s quite easy to make a very simple, yet elegant and tasty meal that will impress the panties off of any woman.

Fun, but not necessary.

One of my favorite date ideas is to go to his house and watch him cook while we sip wine. It’s so much nicer than going out, because you are alone, in an intimate setting. You can light some candles, drink wine, and get to know each other. If a man can cook, he doubles in value, to be honest, because I LOVE tasty food that I don’t have to cook myself.

Remember the scene in Spider man 3?

Harry’s cute cooking antics nearly win him Spidey’s girl!

So, just a few things you should be sure to have:

A big pot with lid.

A small pot with lid.

A large skillet with lid.

A good spatula, wooden spoons, pasta utensil, ladle, and BBQ utensils.

A cheese grater.

A colander (to drain noodles).

A chopping board.

A mixing bowl.

And some food stuff to always have handy:

J. Lee Roy’s Cookin Seasonings.

Garlic Salt.

Pasta.

Frozen veggies (broccoli, green beans, corn, etc).

Parmesan Cheese.

Eggs.

Pepper Jack Cheese.

Sour Cream.

So, you get the idea. I’ll be releasing a cook book for guys who don’t cook, very soon. It will have lots of very simple, tasty, gourmet-like meals meant to impress, with little skill, and even a low budget. If you know what you’re doing, cooking for your date can save money, too.

So, guys, put on your aprons and break out a new skill. Cooking. It’s not just for chicks. Good food can be the way to our hearts, too, you know!

By the way, my first book has been published, finally, if you are interested. It’s called The Insider’s Secrets to Dating Beautiful Women, available for 6.99 at the Amazon book market in Kindle format.

Drop by my new site, I’m trying to get off the ground, where I hope to make it a comfortable place where guys can get advice from beautiful girls about dating, love, sex, and more.

Women want you to be yourself! Or do they?

We forever are hearing someone say we should be ourselves. Just be you… but should we, really?

This is a controversial subject, I know. Well, my biggest focus with The Playmate Gate is to give guys a good idea of what women really want from them. To allow them in on the inside secrets that women usually don’t disclose, easily if at all. My content is, above all, honest and without sugar-coating or a chaser. If anyone reading this takes it the wrong way, or get’s mad and offended, I can’t apologize. My information is aimed at the portion of my readers who want the truth, because, face it, knowledge is power. If you know what women truly want, you are more likely going to be able to provide it.

I can’t honestly speak for all beautiful women, but being one myself, and being raised with two beautiful sisters, then going on to working in clubs and modeling, etc, I’ve been around beautiful women all of my life. I have a pretty decent idea of what the majority of them are after.

That being said, if you have taken in the advice somewhere that women want you to “be yourself”, well, that should be examined. We absolutely do not want you to lie, pretend to be something you are not, deceive us, give us false hopes, or anything along those lines. So, in that aspect, “be yourself” does ring true. Let’s put that a bit differently, though. Don’t be someone else. Don’t pretend.

So, having that part cleared up, let’s move on to actually “being yourself”.

Honestly? No. Women do not want you to be yourself. Now, keep reading, even if I just pissed you off. Give me a chance to completely ruin your day, not just 5 minutes of it. I kid! Don’t close the page.

What women truly want is for you to be clean, polite, smell wonderful, witty and funny, intelligent, suave, brave, strong, sensitive, chivalrous, sexy, heroic, and be able to whip up a delicious meal on the fly. Think. In all honesty, how many of these things describe the real you? When you are home, alone, in your room, no one there, are you any of these things? Maybe one or two. Probably none. I would wager that about 75% of the guys who read this, while in the privacy of their own home, are smelly, gassy, burping, snorting, cartoon viewing, gross joke cracking, beer drinking, women ogling, scared of the dark, t.v. dinner chowing, rude beasts. You may not even realize it. Maybe you think that if a women wants to be with you, she must suffer your bodily noises and be understanding if you ogle other women, when she catches you, which she usually will, because most of you are really not as sly as you believe you are.

What women truly do NOT want:

To smell or hear your bodily functions.

You to crack rude, gross jokes to us and then act as though we are inferior for not finding them funny.

To have you treat us with disrespect in front of your buddies.

To allow your buddies to disrespect us, behind our backs, or right in front of us.

To detect any fear in you.

You to ogle women who are not us, ever, not even in private, and we’d like you to reassure us of this.

To be condescended to or made to feel inferior in any way.

You to gloat if we argue and somehow you win. We’d prefer never to hear of it again. Ever.

You to guzzle a beer, make that annoying AAAAAHHHHHHHH sound, and then belch as long and loud as possible.

To sum up, no, women absolutely do not want you to “be yourself” if that involves anything on the above list and more. But let me please remind you of something, before indignation causes any exploding heads.. we girls work very hard to be beautiful, sexy, smart, good in bed, good in the kitchen, nice to your buddies, welcoming to your family, etc. Reverse the situation and tell me, honestly, do you really believe that any of what we present to you is our true, unaltered self? It works both ways. When you adore someone, you do your best to be the YOU that turns them on and makes them happy. Personally, I love being the hottie that turns my man on every night. When I’m at home, alone, I’m without make-up, wearing sweats and tank tops, glasses, and clicking away on my lap top with my hair a mess. I would never want to “be myself” all of the time, how boring would that be?! And as far as anyone knows? My body does nothing gross and makes no gross sounds or smells. Period.

So, don’t try to be something you truly are not and don’t be deceitful or dishonest. Just DO keep some aspects of you to yourself when you are around women. It’s okay. You aren’t hurting or depriving yourself in any way, I don’t care what the professionals tell you 😉

 

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